People Make Mistake...

I don't forgive people cause I'm weak

I forgive them cause I'm strong enough

to understand people make mistakes.

Jadual Waktu Imsak dan Berbuka Puasa 1433H /2012 ( Shah Alam, Petaling Jaya, Gombak, Hulu Selangor, Hulu Langat & Sepang )

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Shopping at JAKARTA

So we went to Jakarta, it's only a short trip jea..we take flight on friday morning to Jakarta and balik on sunday evening..like i said it was a short trip only. The purpose is to watch NKOTBSB!! yeaayyy..awesome..best giler!!ok2..so we only have Saturday to buy all the souvenir.

TANAH ABANG!

First we went to Tanah abang, wat a huge place to shop! there you can get all the things that u want like handbag, t shirt I <3 Jakarta, telelung sume tu la except key chain! i dunno why tak jumpa maybe rushing sangat that time..I bought telekung for my mom and my niece around RS160 000 = RM54!! quite ok la..cotton kain :) and for my niece beli yg budak2 punya..kaler pink kemerahan  at price RS35000 = RM 12 jea..OK la kan...

For the shirt i <3 Jakarta mmg wajib beli huhu..pegi travel mana2 mst nk carik baju camni..konon2 melambangkan tempat tu telah dijajah la haha..tak ingat la which floor/lantai i beli tshirt ni but since i bought a lot so they give me their best price which is RS25000 per piece which around RM8.40 hahaha..murah!! it was a gud deal hehe..

                                   

telekung for mak n lisha, baju batik for my syg mom, baju kotak2 for me, i <3 jakarta t shirt for me and my syg and my frenz, kain pelikat for abah and the last one hard rock cafe!! teka la utk sape? :P

PASAR PAGI MANGGA DUA

I said earlier kan kat Tanah Abang takde key chain sume, so we went to pasar pagi kat mangga dua ni...seb bek la jumpa..kalo tak confirm budak2 opis bising..it's like a trend in our opis whenever someone pegi vacation harus/wajib beli souvenir utk team huhu..kalo tak mmg abis laaa..huhu..tingkat bawah skali tau..if you guys planning on getting married kat sini banyak sgt souvenir for that! sangat2 banyak! :D

HARD ROCK CAFE

HARD ROCK CAFE!! yeeaaayyyy!~

Our last destination! driver taxi pun sesat ok nk pegi sini..it's located in EX-PLAZA! teka2 what i bought?huhu..i bought 2 things here..heeee~

test jea..tak beli pun :P

yeaahhh baby! i bought this sweater with hoodies!! 

suke sangat sbb mmg lama da mencarik! :D

me and hood takleh dipisahkan! sangat suke <3<3~ 

I bought 1 shirt for my sayang..tak banyak design niways cause size byk tade for guys..i pilih je ikut mana i like..luckily he like it! suke sgt..lupa nk snap pic baju tu..later if i igt i snap n upload here k? heeeee~ 

Kitorg shopping betul2 kat tiga tempat ni jea..like i said it was a short trip..tak sempat nk pegi mana2 pun..huhu..actaully de gak la sesat kat mangga WTC and mangga dua mall sebab igt de jual souvenir kat situ..rupa2nya bulan mangga dua tu tapi pasar mangga dua!! hahaha..situ mmg tade pape..carik kat Tanah Abang je sng! :D ok ni jea..until then~ okbye!~

Hotel Ibis Jakarta Kemayoran

Last 2weeks, me and my friends went for a short trip to Jakarta, We stayed at Hotel Ibis Jakarta Kemayoran. Actually at the first time quite afraid gak la cause we don't know the condition of the room. Hotel was book by my friend using Agoda. Price is really suitable for those who're on budget which why we choose this hotel, 3D2N only RM 264 for 2 person which mean for 1 person only 132. Quite worth it kan? But as i said, we don't know the condition of room and services there..cross finger je la huhu..

How to go to Hotel Ibis Jakarta Kemayoran?


We take AirAsia flight which is landed at Terminal 3, Jakarta.. from there we take shuttle bus (yellow color) to go to other Terminal which are Terminal 2D..shuttle bus is free k so no worries.

From Terminal 2D, you guys kena turun 1 level lagi..afta that only you'll see Damri counter bus(small counter)..The ticket only Rp20 000 which is around Rm7 only and it takes around 1hours with jem?huhu..lebey kurang la..turun kat station Kemayoran k which is the last station.

From Kemayoran station, take tut tut k, price around Rp7500 per person which is around RM 5..Maybe leh dapat murah lagi kot? we're also not sure..but be careful k, once you guys turun from bus, nnt de la orang tanya nak naek ONJENG or not..ONJENG=MOTO!! kitorg almost nak naek ok..manalah tau kan hahaha..last2 naek tut tut jea around 10-15min..dekat jea :D

So we arrived at Hotel Ibis Jakarta Kemayoran..So here's some of the picture that i took!

main enterance

Bathroom! bersih kan? sukeee~

siap de glass door lagi..i likeee~

our room view..erk?hahaha

2 bed..1 for me and 1 for eppa!

Nice kan hotel ni? i give 6/10, sume sebab tade wireless dalam bilik! only lan kabel :P

So we stay at this for 2nite, last day we take breakfast from hotel..it's because they got 50% disc ok! so around Rs 72600 for 2 person which equals to RM24.46 murah kan? For me it's totally worth it..dun believe me? sila tengok sendiri picture kat bawah ni yea..

what a heavy breakfast!pheewww~

coffee!! sedap sgt black coffee itu~

bahagian nasik n all d lauk

sky juice :)

I love this d most! juice buah2..macam2 ada :D

salad...erk?

desert~

datang jea trus serbu bubur nasik dlu..like medan~

western style..siap de omelette lagi ok..de org buat kan :D

nice view for breakfast~

my name!! :)

kaunter~

nk gak western..huhu

so camne?best kan? if de kesempatan pegi jakarta again, i will consider this hotel again..yeaayyy!~ finally setel pun blogging pasal hotel ni..kak nor da tanya2 da..opppsss ~ :D until we meet again..okbye! 

NKOTBSB CONCERT LIVE IN JAKARTA 2012!

Haloo!! Hi guysss...so excited!! guest what?I just come back from a short trip to Jakarta last weekend. Wanna know the purpose of our trip? you got a read more i guest?hahaha ok2 cut the crap, Actually the purpose is to go to the concert NKOTBSB haha..have you guys heards about NKOTBSB? do you guys know them?..well to be truth, i only know Backstreet Boys (BSB) cause they'll like super famous in my time.. New Kid On The Block (NKOTB) ni plak famous at my sister time kot huhu..

The concert was AWESOME, i repeat it was super AWESOME!!!..it's like the best concert i ever had! the Jakarta crowd was great! even though we're pushing each other but at our side there no fighting at ALL! everyone seems friendly and understand each other well! haha..

This is the outside view from the Ancol Beach

On our way to get the wrist band

Our wrist band! yeaaahhh baby!! 

best kan?!! huhu..more pic coming!! 

We have to queue here, masuk stadium ala2 carpet artist with all the light haha..

it's raining tau masa ni, so the guard let us in early..yeayyy!! :D 

Ok2..here are some picture i took during their concert..have fun guys! Enjoy the picture as much as i enjoyed it..

The Crowd! was waiting for them! NKOTBSB

Owh Nick Carter <3~

BRIAN!! you're the sweetest one!! keep smiling baby!!

Joey McIntyre! NKOTB

New Kid on The Block in action!

NKOTB sang a song "Please don't go girl" emotional sgt2..

make all the girl cair huhu

AJ Mclean! 

Nana's Lover? erk?haha

The moment when he choose that girl instead of me..

i is so sad, happy for that gurl though huhu

so romantic right Howie D? huhu

AJ said : i'll never break your heart..i'll never make you cry.. #jeleous

sexy face? nana like is so much! haha

AJ and Nick!

I told you guys his the cuter and sweet among them kan?

always smiling.. :) owhh Brian~

sexy face again?hahaha

There's too much of picture that i have, but i can't afford to upload it all haha..best concert ever! if i got a chance to do it again, i would do it all over again! yeaahhh baby!! NKOTBSB thanks for the awesome moment and memory you gave me. Please do consider visiting Malaysia next time..We would love to have you guys here!~ 

How To Get Rid Of A Bad Memory

Hey guys..How often you heard from your friends, family or even your love one on how to get rid of a bad memory? well here is some tips that i found for all of you..forgiving and forgetting is the main key here for me. We need to forgive and forget in order to HAPPY..Happy reading guys!~

There's this unpleasant memory that nags your brain once in a while. It comes up at random moments, several times a day. When you see something or someone you can relate to it, it comes up again. You even have nightmares about it at night. No matter what you do, it inhibits you in a very perverse and negative way.

Being haunted by an unpleasant and painful memory is frustrating. Not only does it take your concentration from important stuff, it also builds up personality problems like insecurities, inferiority complex and low self-esteem. You might not notice it, but a bad memory can slowly destroy you. It can even make you do shocking acts, like throw tantrums, hurt other people or hurt yourself.

You don't have to be bothered by a bad memory all your life. There are ways to deal with it and make it go away before it totally ruins you. Try these tactics and soon you can kiss that memory goodbye.

Why Does It Haunt You?

Bad memories come in different forms. The first step when letting one go is acknowledging why it affects you in the first place. Why can't you forget it? What particular emotion have you attached to that thought? Knowing these facts will help you to deal with that memory and help you determine how to get rid of it. It allows you to acknowledge what kind of trauma you got from it.

You have a bad memory stuck in your mind probably because:

1. You were embarrassed. You fell down a flight of stairs on your butt, and when you landed, your skirt flopped up, and everyone saw your underwear.
2. You were angry. Your co-worker blackmailed you and stole your idea, and everyone congratulated him for it.
3. You were hurt. Your fiancee left you at the altar without any explanation.
4. It scared you. You survived a car accident, while your friend sitting inches away from you didn't.
5. It made you insecure. Your boyfriend told you “I'm breaking up with you because I found someone prettier/better/smarter”.

Think about why it affects you and how you feel about it. As soon as you recognize the emotion and the trauma, you can now start to get rid of it.

Let Everything Go, Literally

You can blame your mind for all the bad thoughts you remember, but do you know the things you see, feel, and hear around you also triggers them too? For example, you still keep all the love letters the boyfriend you caught sleeping with another woman gave you. You still have a copy of the chemistry test you flunked and were scolded for. All these physical stuff might seem harmless at first, but having them around does nothing for your effort to forget the bad memory. In fact, they may be the very reason why it's still got a strong hold on you.

Before you can say goodbye to the bad memory, say goodbye to everything that reminds you of it first. Gather all the things that you attach to it. If your bad memory is romance-related, stop listening to mushy love songs. Don't go to places that remind you of that incident. No matter how significant they may be to you, you have to leave them behind. Purge your life of all these stuff as soon as you can, and soon, you'll have a hard time remembering that memory.

Hocus Focus
It happens all the time. You're working or doing something important, when all of a sudden, that memory sneaks in your head. Your mind then starts to wander, and before you know it, you've lost yourself, wasted time, and you haven't finished anything.

Haven't you noticed that when you dwell on bad memories, you start losing your concentration on things that are important to your life? At first, it's no big deal, but when it happens more and more frequently, it can pose very serious problems in your personal life, your academics, or your job.

Don't let this happen. As soon as you realize the bad memory is trying to creep in again, try and shake it off. Concentrate and keep your focus steady. Keep reminding yourself that you have to finish whatever you're doing and no unpleasant thought is going to take you away from it. Don't even let other people around you disturb you.

Even when you're not doing something important, keep yourself busy and happy. Be involved in fun activities or find a good outdoor sport to channel out your energy. Travel to fun places. As long as you're enjoying yourself, there's no reason for you to mope around and keep thinking of that annoying memory. Soon enough, you'll be free from its grasp.

It's Inspiration

Letting a bad memory affect you in a negative way is easy. You can cry, be angry, bitter or remorseful, but that's all you can do about it. You can't change what happened anymore, so instead of making you feel worse, why not look at it in a different, more positive light? Turn it into a source of inspiration. It might have not done something good for you in the past, but hopefully, it'll serve as a lesson for you in the future.

For example, you've been in a near-death driving accident. Instead of being traumatized and staying away from driving, think about what you've done wrong on the road and swear that you won't be committing the same mistake again. Let the memory be a reminder of whatever blunder you've made, so in case you ever find yourself in the same situation, you'll know what to do for it to turn out right.

Out With The Old, In With The New

 

Let's say you own a nice pair of shoes. They look really great on your feet, but since you keep using them, they become worn out in time. Eventually, the heel becomes battered, and it becomes painful to use it for walking. The same goes with bad memories. The more you dwell on it, the more it scars you, until it becomes too painful to think about.

These two very different dilemmas have one solution: get new ones. The best way of letting something go is to find a new one to replace it. Go and make new memories to replace those that has scarred you. If you got dumped, find a new love. If you had trouble at work, resign and start over at another employment. By doing this, you're not just moving on, but you're also taking another shot at being happy and contented.

Find A Shoulder To Cry On

Dealing with a problem, a memory, or a trauma all by yourself can be nerve-wracking. No matter how brave or strong-minded you are, it's still better if there is someone there to support and listen to you through your worst times. Go to your friends or your family and spend time with them. Tell them what bothers you and let them listen. They may not see what you see, but they'll surely understand the pain you're going through. They can also give you heartwarming advice and words of wisdom to help you ease the memory away. These people care for you and your well-being, so drawing strength from them really helps.

If you want expert help, consulting a counselor is also a good idea. He or she will see you in sessions, listen to your memory dilemma intently, and give you positive and effective advice. Your counselor can also tell you if you need to take medications or anything that can help improve your condition.

Forgiving Is Forgetting!!

Sometimes, we're not responsible for the bad things that happen to us, but they are cause by other individuals. Think about that other person. Do you have any adverse feelings against him or her? Maybe the reason you haven't let go of the bad memory is you're still holding a grudge against the person who did you wrong.

The best thing to do is to forgive him or her. It seems difficult, but it's the best way to let go of your negative emotion and the bad memory. Tell yourself that it's all in the past, and that grudges don't do anything except hurt you. The other person might not even know you have something against him or her.

Communicate directly with that person. Set up a meeting, or if that's too much, just send a card or a letter to him or her. When you open up yourself, it makes you feel lighter and better. After you've gotten the closure you wanted, you'll be able to move on and let go of the bad memory.

We remember things for a lot of reasons. It can be because it made you happy, or it was a significant event, or because you learned something from it. Memories are good, but when negative ones start to affect you morosely, you have to let it go. Try these tips if you have one lingering in your mind.